{"id":1117,"date":"2018-05-15T20:06:18","date_gmt":"2018-05-15T20:06:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/simonemoke.com\/?p=1117"},"modified":"2025-01-27T12:02:34","modified_gmt":"2025-01-27T12:02:34","slug":"mituri-despre-adolescenti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/simonemoke.com\/hu\/2018\/05\/15\/mituri-despre-adolescenti\/","title":{"rendered":"Mituri despre adolescen\u021bi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Adolescen\u021ba, care se desf\u0103\u0219oar\u0103 aproximativ \u00eentre doisprezece \u0219i dou\u0103zeci \u0219i patru de ani, este o perioad\u0103 a vie\u021bii, care este cunoscut\u0103 \u00een toate culturile o perioad\u0103 plin\u0103 de provoc\u0103ri, at\u00e2t pentru adolescen\u021bi, c\u00e2t \u0219i pentru adul\u021bii care le sunt al\u0103turi.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Dan Siegel, specialist \u00een s\u0103n\u0103tatea rela\u021bional\u0103, a reu\u0219it s\u0103 d\u0103r\u00e2me c\u00e2teva mituri de care este \u00eenconjurat\u0103 adolescen\u021ba, dovedite de \u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 a fi false \u0219i mai ales d\u0103un\u0103toare at\u00e2t adolescen\u021bilor, c\u00e2t \u0219i p\u0103rin\u021bilor lor.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Primul mit este c\u0103 hormonii dezl\u0103n\u021bui\u021bi \u00eei fac pe adolescen\u021bi s\u0103 \u201e o ia razna\u201d sau \u201e s\u0103-\u0219i paird\u0103 min\u021bile\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Este adev\u0103rat c\u0103 activitatea hormonal\u0103 cre\u0219te \u00een aceast\u0103 perioad\u0103, dar nu hormonii determin\u0103 ceea ce se petrece \u00een adolescen\u021b\u0103. Ceea ce tr\u0103iesc adolescen\u021bii se datoreaz\u0103 modific\u0103rilor \u00een dezvoltarea creierului. C\u00e2nd \u0219tim despre aceste schimb\u0103ri, via\u021ba poate decurge mai lin at\u00e2t pentru adolescen\u021bi, c\u00e2t \u0219i pentru p\u0103rin\u021bii lor.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><strong>Un alt mit este este acela c\u0103 adolescen\u021ba este o perioad\u0103 de imaturitate \u0219i c\u0103 adolescen\u021bii nu trebuie dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u201ese fac\u0103 mari\u201d.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Nu este de mirare c\u0103 adolescen\u021ba este privit\u0103 ca o perioad\u0103 care trebuie supravie\u021buit\u0103 cumva, \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 o dep\u0103\u0219im, cu c\u00e2t mai pu\u021bine urme. A fi adolescent poate fi terifiant, c\u00e2nd totul este at\u00e2t de nou \u0219i intens \u00een aceast\u0103 perioad\u0103, iar pentru adul\u021bi ceea ce fac adolescen\u021bii poate fi derutant \u0219i lipsit de sens.<\/p>\n<p>Adolescen\u021bii nu au nevoie doar s\u0103 supravie\u021buiasc\u0103 adolescen\u021bei, ci se pot dezvolta armonios <em>datorit\u0103 <\/em>acestei perioade importante din via\u021ba lor. Transform\u0103rile adolescen\u021bei: testarea limitelor, pasiunea de a explora necunoscutul \u0219i misteriosul, pot preg\u0103ti terenul pentru dezvoltarea tr\u0103s\u0103turilor de caracter fundamentale care vor permite adolescen\u021bilor s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 vie\u021bi minunate, aventuroase \u0219i \u00eemplinite.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong>Un al treilea mit este c\u0103 \u201ea te face mare\u201d <\/strong><strong>\u00een adolescen\u021b\u0103 presupune tranzi\u021bia de la dependen\u021ba de adul\u021bi la o total\u0103 independen\u021b\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de ace\u0219tia. <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Chiar dac\u0103 exist\u0103 un impuls natural \u0219i necesar c\u0103tre independen\u021ba fa\u021b\u0103 de adul\u021bii care i-au crescut, adolescen\u021bii \u00eenc\u0103 beneficiaz\u0103 de pe urma rela\u021biilor pe care le au cu ei. Tranzi\u021bia s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 se face prin interdependen\u021b\u0103, nu prin izolarea de tipul \u201edescurc\u0103-te singur\u201d. Natura rela\u021biilor pe care adolescen\u021bii le au cu p\u0103rin\u021bii lor, ca figuri de ata\u0219ament, se schimb\u0103, iar prietenii devin mai importan\u021bi \u00een aceast\u0103 perioad\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Adolescen\u021bii care absorb mesaje negative despre identitatea lor \u0219i despre ceea ce se a\u0219teapt\u0103 de la ei pot cobor\u00ee la acel nivel, \u00een loc s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i realizeze adev\u0103ratul poten\u021bial.<\/p>\n<p>Adolescen\u021ba este o perioad\u0103 esen\u021bial\u0103, plin\u0103 de intensitate emo\u021bional\u0103, implicare social\u0103 \u0219i creativitate. Reprezint\u0103 esen\u021ba a ceea ce \u201ear trebui\u201d s\u0103 fim, a capacit\u0103\u021bilor \u0219i nevoilor noastre ca persoane \u0219i familie.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Adolescen\u021ba, care se desf\u0103\u0219oar\u0103 aproximativ \u00eentre doisprezece \u0219i dou\u0103zeci \u0219i patru de ani, este o perioad\u0103 a vie\u021bii, care este cunoscut\u0103 \u00een toate culturile o perioad\u0103 plin\u0103 de provoc\u0103ri, at\u00e2t pentru adolescen\u021bi, c\u00e2t \u0219i pentru adul\u021bii care le sunt al\u0103turi. Dr. Dan Siegel, specialist \u00een s\u0103n\u0103tatea rela\u021bional\u0103, a reu\u0219it s\u0103 d\u0103r\u00e2me c\u00e2teva mituri de care [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":1123,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1117","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/simonemoke.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1117","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/simonemoke.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/simonemoke.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/simonemoke.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/simonemoke.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1117"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/simonemoke.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1117\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1121,"href":"https:\/\/simonemoke.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1117\/revisions\/1121"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/simonemoke.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1123"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/simonemoke.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1117"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/simonemoke.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1117"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/simonemoke.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1117"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}